Author: John Hawkins Jr., M.S., L.M.H.C., M.C.A.P.

Childhood Trauma in Adults: How Old Wounds Show Up Today

Posted on June 8, 2026, updated on June 18, 2026 by John Hawkins Jr., M.S., L.M.H.C., M.C.A.P.

Most of the adults I work with do not believe they have childhood trauma. They had homes. They had parents who tried. They were not abused in the ways the word trauma typically conjures. And so when their adult lives begin to feel like they are running on a script they did not write, when… Read More

EMDR Therapy Explained: How Moving Your Eyes Can Heal Trauma

Posted on June 2, 2026, updated on June 2, 2026 by John Hawkins Jr., M.S., L.M.H.C., M.C.A.P.

There is a moment in almost every introduction to EMDR therapy when the person sitting across from me looks slightly skeptical. I understand the reaction. The basic description of the treatment sounds, on its surface, almost implausible. You move your eyes back and forth, or follow a light, or feel alternating taps on your hands,… Read More

High-Functioning Anxiety: The Hidden Struggle of Looking Fine

Posted on May 26, 2026, updated on June 2, 2026 by John Hawkins Jr., M.S., L.M.H.C., M.C.A.P.

The clients who arrive in my office describing high-functioning anxiety almost always say a version of the same thing. From the outside, my life looks great. People think I have it together. I am the one everyone else comes to. And inside, I am barely holding it together. I have not been okay for a… Read More

When Anxiety Is Ruining Your Relationship: What to Do

Posted on May 18, 2026, updated on May 19, 2026 by John Hawkins Jr., M.S., L.M.H.C., M.C.A.P.

Some of the most painful sessions I have ever sat in were not with people whose relationships were ending because of betrayal, incompatibility, or a loss of love. They were with couples who genuinely loved each other and were watching anxiety slowly take the relationship apart anyway. This is one of the most underrecognized dynamics… Read More

Toni Taylor

14:22 21 Dec 25

Bissan is amazing! She has really been a blessing to not only myself but my son as well. She’s so easy to talk to and makes you feel seen. She is truly helping with my self growth.

Mike Taylor

20:19 15 Dec 25

Meeting with Bissan wasn’t my idea to be honest, but I’m extremely glad and grateful to have been shown her by my parents. I’d be lying if I said I think therapy is fake and that this didn’t help. Cause it did and overall i am extremely grateful that I began talking to her, my life flipped in a good way. I began going out more, I grew confidence in stuff and overall just all of the dread I had for awhile kind of just vanished slowly as I kept seeing her. This is the most effective counseling i’ve ever been to, and this isn’t my first. She truly helps.

El Dja

18:35 20 Oct 25

Meeting Dr Bissan was a blessing to my life! And it was so random, I was looking for help but didn’t know where! I found her and I will never regret this day! I would really love to see her every single day till I’m totally healed! She’s good with what she’s doing! She’s perfect! Thank you! Looking forward to see her again!

Amanda Haber

18:48 30 Aug 25

Bissan has been such a gift in my life. From the moment I met her, I felt seen, understood, and truly cared for. She has a way of listening that makes you feel safe to be completely honest, while also gently guiding you toward healing and growth. Her kindness and compassion come through in every session, and she never makes you feel rushed or judged. I’ve gained so much clarity and peace since working with her, and I can honestly say she’s helped me through some of my hardest moments. I’m deeply grateful for her and would recommend her to anyone looking for not just a counselor, but a true source of support.

Brenda Amin

16:04 12 Aug 25

⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️ (And I’d give more if I could!)I cannot say enough good things about this counseling center. From the very first interaction, the team has been incredibly helpful, compassionate, and thoroughly professional. They create a safe, welcoming environment where you truly feel heard and supported.Every session is handled with care, empathy, and expertise, and it's clear that the counselors are deeply committed to helping their clients grow and heal. Whether you're going through a tough time or just need guidance, this is exactly the kind of place you want by your side.Highly recommend to anyone looking for real support from people who genuinely care.Thank you for all that you do!

Hawkins Counseling Center – Therapist